I love Comic-Con. I really do. I’ve attended somewhere close
to a dozen shows. I’ve been to both the Comic-Con in San Diego and the one in
New York. And, while the majority of these shows have been for work-related
purposes, I always take whatever available free time I can to enjoy the show floor,
panels, and events.
Yet it wasn’t until years later that I discovered something
was missing. Through a work product promotion, I attended my first Gen Con, a
gaming convention, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Almost upon arrival, the thought
popped into my head and out of my mouth at the same time: “These are my people.”
To be honest, I couldn’t explain at the time why a gaming convention would hold
such an affinity over my beloved Comic-Con.
But, there it was.
I came to realize that Comic-Con, although jam-packed with
all creeds of fan-boys (and girls) from all over the world, is a solipsistic
experience. There is a sea of people emphatically facing in one direction and
not at each other. I may find other die-hard enthusiasts in solidarity
attending the same eclectic panel, or encounter another attendee in a favorite
but obscure costume - but will we really converse and strike up a friendship? Will
either of us do more than snap a picture and compliment the wearer? Not likely.
A friend of mine (let’s call him Ben) will often reject
offers of gatherings when the main purpose is watching a movie or television
show together. Watching stuff is something he can do on his own. But gaming? That needs other people. At first
I thought he was a bit of a loon (and he is); however, he makes a good point.
At a gaming convention, I can still find people wearing outrageous
and clever costumes. I can still find groups of people who share a passion for
interests from mainstream to eclectic. But only there am I bound to really meet and spend time with
absolute strangers. More than that, we will be bonding and creating memories
over card games, board games, role-playing games, video games, and even (sigh)
Live Action Role Playing games. At a gaming con, you are creating shared
experiences with other attendees and, if you aren’t careful, you might even
make new friends. It’s happened.
This is why I still enjoy Comic-Con, fully. Yet we can only really be friends going
forward. My heart belongs to gaming
conventions, and frankly it probably always has.